How to Make Your Ex Return Your Emails! 3 Things You Should Do If Your Ex is Trying to Avoid You!

Do things just seem to not be working out between your ex and you? Are you desperately trying to get in touch with your ex, but he/she just doesn't seem to want to respond to your emails?

You see, if you are in this situation, where your ex is trying to avoid you, then you need to carefully follow these 3 important steps so that you can make your ex return your emails....

Change gears

You are always trying to chase your ex around, which means you are desperately going out of your way to see your ex and bump into him/her. Instead of doing this, try to avoid your ex. Changing gears will give your ex a dose of their own medicine, and trust me, he/she won't like it.

You see, once you change gears, you make your ex see things differently, and it will really get your ex thinking and feeling lonely. Their loneliness will create a void, because you are gone, and they will actually go back and re-read the old emails and things you sent, and in turn will start to get curious about you again.


Shifting your own focus

While you are changing gears, it's time to shift your own focus and instead of focusing on getting your ex back, think about OTHER things.

Yes! It may sound crazy, but when you shift your focus, you help the situation, because you won't be thinking over and over about how badly you want your ex back, which also means you won't jeopardize the situation by doing something which you know you shouldn't.

You see, any time that we are constantly thinking about something, this pushes our mind to dominate our body and our body then wants to go towards this thing. That is why you can sometimes say things you "didn't mean", and then of course find it hard to take things back once they are already said or done.


The same applies to your ex, which is why you must shift your focus to something else, such as self improvement, your work, or virtually anything that gets you ahead, but doesn't make you want to do desperate things around your ex.

Keep out of touch

Finally, the key to getting your ex back, when they are ignoring you, is to get out of touch. This is the most vital step, because it will be the turning point of everything.

Your ex expects you to contact him/her always and when you do not, they instantly start seeking your attention, and will start thinking about you again, and when combined with the first two tips, it will get your ex to return your emails, and in fact it will make your ex want to talk to you again.