In this day and age "talk is cheap" and most definitely this stands to be 100% true for anyone who wants to get their ex back. You have to remember that your ex already knows what kind of a person you are, and they know so much about you. This means that your words are no longer as powerful as your ACTIONS.
This is why you really have to PROVE to your ex the reasons why they should take you back, so that they can in turn be 100% convinced to do it! Use these 15 MUST DO'S to make your ex take you back....
1. No trash talking- in fact, do not talk to anyone about your ex, because it may backfire if they tell your ex that you are depressed.
2. Be thankful for the breakup, so that your ex psychologically feels rejected and wants you back.
3. Obey the "no contact" rule, and stop talking to your ex for 2 weeks, so that they can stop taking you for granted.
4. Understand the breakup- know it's causes and avoid the same issues this time around, and make an effort to change.
5. Be aware of your ex's needs- once you know what they want, you can get to work and do the things they need.
6. Get rid of any bad habits- be your best self so that your ex can see you have improved!
7. Be spontaneous- be outgoing and make your ex think that they were the one's holding you back, so that they feel guilty.
8. Say why you are sorry- instead of just saying "sorry", explain what you are sorry for, so that your ex feels you aren't just saying it to beg them back, but rather mean it.
9. Get back on the dating scene- this can make your ex jealous and make them take you back.
10. Get into shape- workout, exercise, eat healthy, so you can feel and look better, and so that you can attract your ex back to you.
11. Keep living life- instead of stopping everything live life again so your ex can see you on your own two feet.
12. Don't respond to your ex right away- instead ignore them and cut things short so they are left wanting more.
13. Become upbeat- no one likes a sourpuss or someone who moans and whines all the time because they are depressed. Your ex will become more curious if you are upbeat.
14. Play hard to get and never give your ex anything without them earning it first this time.
15. Befriend new people- surround yourself with some new people so your ex can envy you, and become curious about your life now.
